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    Been thinking about Lewd lately, no clue why. Anyway, you're all great so best wishes to you all.

    I thought about habits recently. At least just in regards to how I live my life. I've jumped around a few places in where I live and though it I've kind of learned more about how I interact with people and situations in general. It's kind of weird to get that kind of perspective as in the past I've wondered if I would have done things differently if with a different group of people. Overall, It's made me realize more about who I am as a person.

      Foolguy If I understand correcting, you're thinking about how our behaviour tends to change depending on who we're with?

        Actually, the opposite. I thought that my behavior doesn't change across different people. I always wondered if I got along or didn't get along with certain people because of bad luck/chance or because it's how I interact with the world. For example, I've entered groups where I'd thought I'd get along with more people, but it didn't really change much. I didn't get more friends or more closer to people, even when I thought that I would. It made me think more about how it's not always interests or beliefs that bring people together, there's another layer I don't know how to call. Chemistry maybe? In any case, to sum up, it kind of made me realize there's a lot more to getting along with people than I thought, and it isn't as simple as "we both like x".

          Foolguy I get you. Yeah, I think common interests definitely help, as they can provide everyone with something to talk about, but that only tends to get you so far before it becomes a bit monotonous where everyone already knows it all. It's something else entirely when you find someone, or some people with whom you don't have a whole lot in common, but are still able to talk about shit and make each other laugh all day.

            Foolguy That was an interesting read, I find that over time I tend to mimic some habits of people in the group I'm in, but I'm not sure if it's part of the getting along process. What worked best for me was making individual friends, and being introduces to their circles. I got to know the group and got along as well, of note is that topics of discussions are often the same, sometimes even word for word. Rest is ranting about the news or small talk. It(s not my cup of tea but I enjoy it occasionally. I guess my point is to try doing mindless things once in a blue moon and you might make friends more easily. Comon ground is always just a conversation starter as you've noticed, rest is "vibe" as I've heard it, so wether or not both parties look interested, remember stuff, laugh together and that's pretty much it I think.

            COUPLED You did well, get better soon!

              Backlash Thanks! 🙂 It's already much better today. Also, the Corona tests were negative, so it's probably just a cold.

                  Might be buying a car soon. Both exciting and stressful

                  Backlash How are you doing now? I'm really glad you are still around 🙂