Welcome to the GrUTT.
I'm going to have a go at making a tox group chat as an alternative to the discord channel here. Whether you dislike discord or are interested in p2p technology, give this a read! I'm not going to type out the whole tox FAQ, but in brief it is a p2p encrypted messaging program, which has group chats, voice, and video calls. It has clients on Linux, Mac, Windows, Android, and iOS among other operating systems.
Here's the main site.
Here's a list of clients you can choose from.
There's a wiki which has all this info in greater detail.
I personally am using qTox on Windows, and muTox on Debian. I haven't tried any mobile client but I'm sure they're alright too. Someone has made a group chat bot out there, similar to what people use on discord channels, but I'm not super savvy on that kind of thing. So for now, if you want to try out the lewd.sx tox chat, just add me on your client and I'll invite you to the group. Oh yeah, adding people--here's my ID, everyone will have a 76 character code like it: 7BE16008A493031B0BB4DD7A669AD738ECE8FE04373239A8BA126E5579F0F81FB6D3AFFB8BFB
Alternatively, you can use a QR code.
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