what porn has done to millennials - Lewd

what porn has done to millennials

Kyoko.AVNo

There's an interesting video series that describes the effects of watching large amounts of porn on a person's psychology that I think might explain some of the article's claims about the dating behavior of Millennials. If you're interested, you can watch it here:
http://yourbrainonporn.com/your-brain-on-porn-series

As far as a significant other's sex with prior partners goes, consider the fact that any given individual's personality is in a constant state of flux. That is, you aren't exactly the same person that you were a week ago, or a month ago, or six months ago, etc. because you're steadily and continually changing as a person with the passage of time.

Similarly, just because my hypothetical partner had sex with someone else in the past doesn't mean that they're somehow less committed to me or anything of that sort. Their motivations and thought patterns have changed since then; that much is obvious, since they'd otherwise still be with their old partner, or at the very least would be too interested in them to be pursuing me.

Because of that, it doesn't bother me when a romantic interest of mine (potential or otherwise) has been sexually active in the past, since that was during a different period in their life and thus isn't particularly relevant to the present. Given how much I change and how relatively quickly said changes tend to occur, how can I look at others and expect that they've somehow remained static?

FukuchiChiisaia

From traditional Asian perspective, casual sex is something that really awful, weird, bizarre, and disgusting. And they often become pornophobic.

I often see when lewd couples was declared for being guilty just for having sex. Especially country with most of the people is Islam. And especially at Ramadan. Just like in Indonesia, our government banned every porn content on internet. Reddit was banned. Tumblr also banned (but the ban was lifted due to huge protest in Indonesia). Google and Youtube almost banned (F*CK YOU ICMI). Malaysia is even worse. And Chinese is the worst. The most funny is a woman in Aceh( Indonesia) was found guilty and get sentenced for get raped by numerous men. Seriously, she is the VICTIM.

But cast that all aside. Let's back to the topic.

Personally, I think that we should treasure our virginity. I only want to having sex with my wife. And I don't want see my wife having sex with other (I want get married to virgin girl, it's my dream to take other virginity (YEAH I'M PERVY GUY)). Sex was done only for making child. Pleasure is bonus. Although we cannot having sex, we still can make a happy family. If you have religion, you should notice that the teaching of sexuality already exist since a loooooooooong time ago. (Most of American is Christian, but why most of them still having sex like an animal?) We are living in globalization era, and we should do the positive, not the negative ones. Indulging self with desire was characteristic of ancient civilization. Casual sex is declining of human civilization.

Well, that's my opinion. I don't mean any offense. That's all.

Backlash

FukuchiChiisaia wrote:
Casual sex is declining of human civilization.

Eh, I wouldn't go that far. The Romans and Greeks had tons of lewd, casual sex, and word on the street is they did some pretty neato things back in the day.

Marine

Turned me into a raging homo, desu.

based_bluetawn

malmon wrote:

it made a compelling argument that one major millennial turn-on is hentai

Hooray! Soon it'll be considered normal!

But seriously, I feel like the greater prevalence of a wider variety of porn is likely responsible for people being more sexually open - their feelings and desires less repressed, which is a good thing in my opinion.

I can't really think of any realistic negative effects though. I'd imagine that complete desensitisation is rather difficult to achieve, so is therefore not a great risk.

Not necessarily open, because things outside "traditional bsdm" kinks are largely for their shock value.

m__

I think a important thing to remember is that its a article based on a qoura thread and the opinions of a gay man over 40 on vice.

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