Find the good ones.
The ones with real plot-
YAOI:
Junjou Romantica
Sekaiichi Hatsukoi
Love Stage
Gravitation (Love)
Loveless (Love)
Those are pretty much the less less
sexualized Yaoi.
YURI:
Sakura Trick (....I didn't really like this one tbh)
YuruYuri
Seikon No Qwaser
I'm sorry but all the other Yuri is way
to sexualized....