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07-21-2016, 03:53 PM
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I've never been with someone I really liked, so I'm on a break now until I can work up my courage to invest myself in another person again.
Kinda hard, in my experience I fall for most at least okay looking people I am around 1 year for, but not before that. By then I'm a distant friend.
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07-21-2016, 04:59 PM
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(07-21-2016, 03:48 PM)llik3 Wrote:
(07-11-2016, 05:29 AM)LoliPantsu Wrote: I'm in a relationship with my waifu.
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Yin wa ore no yome da yo!

Ryuu waga teki wo kurau!

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Don't dragon devour me.
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07-22-2016, 08:09 AM
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(09-19-2015, 09:33 AM)Hatsune Miku Wrote: single since 1997 ;-;

Me too. Confessed my love 21 times and engaged 0 time.

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07-23-2016, 04:31 AM
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(07-22-2016, 09:16 PM)FukuchiChiisaia Wrote:
(09-19-2015, 09:33 AM)Hatsune Miku Wrote: single since 1997 ;-;

Me too. Confessed my love 21 times and engaged 0 times.

Damn, that's rough

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07-23-2016, 04:07 PM
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(07-22-2016, 08:09 AM)Aezeles Wrote: forever alone

You have a sick-ass avatar though.

He has no style. He has no grace. This Kong has a funny face.
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(07-23-2016, 04:07 PM)floattube Wrote:
(07-22-2016, 08:09 AM)Aezeles Wrote: forever alone

You have a sick-ass avatar though.

thanks bro
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07-24-2016, 01:40 AM
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So, my mom had been setting me on dates with girls i used to hate (ex-classmates, her friend's daughters, etc.) and i hate it. So i started to skip these by telling my mom about going to see what's up with the restaurant i'm opening later in October/November, while just goofing off to somewhere else. The thing is that someday we just went to see a fryer and after that we went to a nearby bar to have a beer... and my mom just passes by.

Back at home she gave me this 2 hours long rant about how i should respect women and shit, and asked me stuff like "Are you gay?", "Are you aware that one of these fine girls are willing to date you?" or "I want grandsons, dammit!". I carefully told her that i'm having two major projects that i'm working on and how i hadn't time to date like a regular person. She told me "You ain't doing shit until you have a wife and kids, you ain't spendin' shit because u need that money and you need another 9 to 5 job and wife and kids and a car" and i just can't stand it anymore, dude!

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07-24-2016, 02:12 AM
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(07-24-2016, 01:40 AM)yumiyacchi Wrote: So, my mom had been setting me on dates with girls i used to hate (ex-classmates, her friend's daughters, etc.) and i hate it. So i started to skip these by telling my mom about going to see what's up with the restaurant i'm opening later in October/November, while just goofing off to somewhere else. The thing is that someday we just went to see a fryer and after that we went to a nearby bar to have a beer... and my mom just passes by.

Back at home she gave me this 2 hours long rant about how i should respect women and shit, and asked me stuff like "Are you gay?", "Are you aware that one of these fine girls are willing to date you?" or "I want grandsons, dammit!". I carefully told her that i'm having two major projects that i'm working on and how i hadn't time to date like a regular person. She told me "You ain't doing shit until you have a wife and kids, you ain't spendin' shit because u need that money and you need another 9 to 5 job and wife and kids and a car" and i just can't stand it anymore, dude!

Jesus, where are you from? 

My mom always goes on about how one day a girl will catch my eye. Never pressures me into dates or anything. As someone who literally has zero interest in dating, or forming a relationship that sounds like a literal nightmare.

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07-24-2016, 05:17 AM (This post was last modified: 07-24-2016, 05:20 AM by malmon.)
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(07-24-2016, 01:40 AM)yumiyacchi Wrote: "you need another 9 to 5 job and wife and kids and a car"

Some /r/latestagecapitalism shit right there

Pretty sure my parents assume I'm far more capable in the relationship department than I really am. The only girl I've ever had the confidence to ask out was also an anime fan - which makes sense, I suppose. Trouble is she lived in Spain and was on Erasmus, so yeah...

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(07-24-2016, 02:12 AM)snow Wrote:
(07-24-2016, 01:40 AM)yumiyacchi Wrote: So, my mom had been setting me on dates with girls i used to hate (ex-classmates, her friend's daughters, etc.) and i hate it. So i started to skip these by telling my mom about going to see what's up with the restaurant i'm opening later in October/November, while just goofing off to somewhere else. The thing is that someday we just went to see a fryer and after that we went to a nearby bar to have a beer... and my mom just passes by.

Back at home she gave me this 2 hours long rant about how i should respect women and shit, and asked me stuff like "Are you gay?", "Are you aware that one of these fine girls are willing to date you?" or "I want grandsons, dammit!". I carefully told her that i'm having two major projects that i'm working on and how i hadn't time to date like a regular person. She told me "You ain't doing shit until you have a wife and kids, you ain't spendin' shit because u need that money and you need another 9 to 5 job and wife and kids and a car" and i just can't stand it anymore, dude!

Jesus, where are you from? 

My mom always goes on about how one day a girl will catch my eye. Never pressures me into dates or anything. As someone who literally has zero interest in dating, or forming a relationship that sounds like a literal nightmare.


I'm from Chile, but my mom married really young, like 21 or something. It believes that if i remain single until 25 i'll be single for life.



(07-24-2016, 05:17 AM)malmon Wrote:
(07-24-2016, 01:40 AM)yumiyacchi Wrote: "you need another 9 to 5 job and wife and kids and a car"

Some /r/latestagecapitalism shit right there

Pretty sure my parents assume I'm far more capable in the relationship department than I really am. The only girl I've ever had the confidence to ask out was also an anime fan - which makes sense, I suppose. Trouble is she lived in Spain and was on Erasmus, so yeah...

I feel you, i had a relationship with a girl from the states. It happened to be a real DQ thingy so we broke up.

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07-25-2016, 07:36 AM
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(07-24-2016, 01:25 PM)yumiyacchi Wrote:
(07-24-2016, 02:12 AM)snow Wrote:
(07-24-2016, 01:40 AM)yumiyacchi Wrote: So, my mom had been setting me on dates with girls i used to hate (ex-classmates, her friend's daughters, etc.) and i hate it. So i started to skip these by telling my mom about going to see what's up with the restaurant i'm opening later in October/November, while just goofing off to somewhere else. The thing is that someday we just went to see a fryer and after that we went to a nearby bar to have a beer... and my mom just passes by.

Back at home she gave me this 2 hours long rant about how i should respect women and shit, and asked me stuff like "Are you gay?", "Are you aware that one of these fine girls are willing to date you?" or "I want grandsons, dammit!". I carefully told her that i'm having two major projects that i'm working on and how i hadn't time to date like a regular person. She told me "You ain't doing shit until you have a wife and kids, you ain't spendin' shit because u need that money and you need another 9 to 5 job and wife and kids and a car" and i just can't stand it anymore, dude!

Jesus, where are you from? 

My mom always goes on about how one day a girl will catch my eye. Never pressures me into dates or anything. As someone who literally has zero interest in dating, or forming a relationship that sounds like a literal nightmare.


I'm from Chile, but my mom married really young, like 21 or something. It believes that if i remain single until 25 i'll be single for life.



(07-24-2016, 05:17 AM)malmon Wrote:
(07-24-2016, 01:40 AM)yumiyacchi Wrote: "you need another 9 to 5 job and wife and kids and a car"

Some /r/latestagecapitalism shit right there

Pretty sure my parents assume I'm far more capable in the relationship department than I really am. The only girl I've ever had the confidence to ask out was also an anime fan - which makes sense, I suppose. Trouble is she lived in Spain and was on Erasmus, so yeah...

I feel you, i had a relationship with a girl from the states. It happened to be a real DQ thingy so we broke up.

jesus im glad my mum doesnt do that. sorry dude
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07-25-2016, 08:55 AM
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Not giving a shit atm. All girls I encounter are fucking dumb anyway.
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(07-25-2016, 08:55 AM)Inkjet Printer Wrote: Not giving a shit atm. All girls I encounter are fucking dumb anyway.

Bad breakup, huh? D:

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(07-25-2016, 08:55 AM)Inkjet Printer Wrote: Not giving a shit atm. All girls I encounter are fucking dumb anyway.

People tend to get smarter as they mature...some do, give it time^^
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(07-25-2016, 10:11 AM)RevonZZ Wrote:
(07-25-2016, 08:55 AM)Inkjet Printer Wrote: Not giving a shit atm. All girls I encounter are fucking dumb anyway.

Bad breakup, huh? D:

Dude you don't know shit about me everyone just fucking sucks ok.

(07-25-2016, 11:33 AM)llik3 Wrote:
(07-25-2016, 08:55 AM)Inkjet Printer Wrote: Not giving a shit atm. All girls I encounter are fucking dumb anyway.

People tend to get smarter as they mature...some do, give it time^^

I'm sure they don't, if you're a retard at birth you'll be one forever.
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(07-26-2016, 05:00 AM)Inkjet Printer Wrote:
(07-25-2016, 10:11 AM)RevonZZ Wrote:
(07-25-2016, 08:55 AM)Inkjet Printer Wrote: Not giving a shit atm. All girls I encounter are fucking dumb anyway.

Bad breakup, huh? D:

Dude you don't know shit about me everyone just fucking sucks ok.

(07-25-2016, 11:33 AM)llik3 Wrote:
(07-25-2016, 08:55 AM)Inkjet Printer Wrote: Not giving a shit atm. All girls I encounter are fucking dumb anyway.

People tend to get smarter as they mature...some do, give it time^^

I'm sure they don't, if you're a retard at birth you'll be one forever.

'Retard' ... what form of retardation are you writing about? Mental retardation? Sure, that one can be born into...with enough brain juice those people can be nice and good to be around as well. 
Emotional retardation? Missing empathy? Social Anxiety and psychiatric disorders? Some of those are indeed birth defects, but that isn't something that automatically makes you a jerk. 
(I gather that anxiety problems are a common trait in many members in such boards? Surely not all of them would be jerks. In fact, I would put myself in the slightly empathically deficient category, which is why I try to be extra nice to people I want to work with in my social life - makes me about as nice as a mean-spirited normie)

You are REALLY talking about asshats and jerks aren't you? That isn't inborn, though it can be assimilated from family and even friends by imitation. It is however not an inherently permanent quality of one's brain, if the individual in question does not have an abnormal brain structure that makes them lack empathy and a personal history that does, indeed, not compensate for said defect.

A simple truism will prove my earlier statement: Jerks with a life are nice to some.
You will then agree, that being a jerk is neither inborn, nor a permanent quality of a non-impaired person's mind.
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Some asshats I knew now aren't as much of an asshat anymore...be OPTIMISTIC
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(07-26-2016, 11:39 AM)llik3 Wrote:
(07-26-2016, 05:00 AM)Inkjet Printer Wrote:
(07-25-2016, 10:11 AM)RevonZZ Wrote:
(07-25-2016, 08:55 AM)Inkjet Printer Wrote: Not giving a shit atm. All girls I encounter are fucking dumb anyway.

Bad breakup, huh? D:

Dude you don't know shit about me everyone just fucking sucks ok.

(07-25-2016, 11:33 AM)llik3 Wrote:
(07-25-2016, 08:55 AM)Inkjet Printer Wrote: Not giving a shit atm. All girls I encounter are fucking dumb anyway.

People tend to get smarter as they mature...some do, give it time^^

I'm sure they don't, if you're a retard at birth you'll be one forever.

'Retard' ... what form of retardation are you writing about? Mental retardation? Sure, that one can be born into...with enough brain juice those people can be nice and good to be around as well. 
Emotional retardation? Missing empathy? Social Anxiety and psychiatric disorders? Some of those are indeed birth defects, but that isn't something that automatically makes you a jerk. 
(I gather that anxiety problems are a common trait in many members in such boards? Surely not all of them would be jerks. In fact, I would put myself in the slightly empathically deficient category, which is why I try to be extra nice to people I want to work with in my social life - makes me about as nice as a mean-spirited normie)

You are REALLY talking about asshats and jerks aren't you? That isn't inborn, though it can be assimilated from family and even friends by imitation. It is however not an inherently permanent quality of one's brain, if the individual in question does not have an abnormal brain structure that makes them lack empathy and a personal history that does, indeed, not compensate for said defect.

A simple truism will prove my earlier statement: Jerks with a life are nice to some.
You will then agree, that being a jerk is neither inborn, nor a permanent quality of a non-impaired person's mind.

I'm talking about dumb people, you know, the ones who don't have a natural curiosity for interesting things, don't know a lot about the world, and can't think for themselves.
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(07-26-2016, 11:56 AM)Inkjet Printer Wrote:
(07-26-2016, 11:39 AM)llik3 Wrote:
(07-26-2016, 05:00 AM)Inkjet Printer Wrote:
(07-25-2016, 10:11 AM)RevonZZ Wrote: Bad breakup, huh? D:

Dude you don't know shit about me everyone just fucking sucks ok.

(07-25-2016, 11:33 AM)llik3 Wrote: People tend to get smarter as they mature...some do, give it time^^

I'm sure they don't, if you're a retard at birth you'll be one forever.

'Retard' ... what form of retardation are you writing about? Mental retardation? Sure, that one can be born into...with enough brain juice those people can be nice and good to be around as well. 
Emotional retardation? Missing empathy? Social Anxiety and psychiatric disorders? Some of those are indeed birth defects, but that isn't something that automatically makes you a jerk. 
(I gather that anxiety problems are a common trait in many members in such boards? Surely not all of them would be jerks. In fact, I would put myself in the slightly empathically deficient category, which is why I try to be extra nice to people I want to work with in my social life - makes me about as nice as a mean-spirited normie)

You are REALLY talking about asshats and jerks aren't you? That isn't inborn, though it can be assimilated from family and even friends by imitation. It is however not an inherently permanent quality of one's brain, if the individual in question does not have an abnormal brain structure that makes them lack empathy and a personal history that does, indeed, not compensate for said defect.

A simple truism will prove my earlier statement: Jerks with a life are nice to some.
You will then agree, that being a jerk is neither inborn, nor a permanent quality of a non-impaired person's mind.

I'm talking about dumb people, you know, the ones who don't have a natural curiosity for interesting things, don't know a lot about the world, and can't think for themselves.

Yes, those need external stimulus mostly. Atheism works.
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Also, I've had the experience that, after people turn sixteen, they slowly open up to having interests and things to be motivated about. It also becomes the new cool - Though the last part might only be true if you go on to further education, maybe liberal arts.

My little brother, seventeen yo, is now learning a craft and says it is not so.
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(07-26-2016, 12:16 PM)llik3 Wrote: Also, I've had the experience that, after people turn sixteen, they slowly open up to having interests and things to be motivated about. It also becomes the new cool - Though the last part might only be true if you go on to further education, maybe liberal arts.

My little brother, seventeen yo, is now learning a craft and says it is not so.

I want to say things about this but I really can't do that in a public area such as this.
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(07-26-2016, 02:53 PM)Inkjet Printer Wrote:
(07-26-2016, 12:16 PM)llik3 Wrote: Also, I've had the experience that, after people turn sixteen, they slowly open up to having interests and things to be motivated about. It also becomes the new cool - Though the last part might only be true if you go on to further education, maybe liberal arts.

My little brother, seventeen yo, is now learning a craft and says it is not so.

I want to say things about this but I really can't do that in a public area such as this.

?then don't?
?don't then?