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12-02-2015, 05:04 PM (This post was last modified: 12-02-2015, 05:04 PM by cutie.)
#30122 (1)
I like someone a real lot and their ex is an meanie :c

I just wan to sit down and tell the meanie that they needs to not be a meanie but the person I like says not to because meanie will start more mean issues :'c

Meanie argues with person I like just to talk to person I like instead of learning to be a civilized not meanie friend.. :/

Meanie annoys person I like EVERY DAY and it makes me sad inside :c
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12-02-2015, 05:19 PM
#30123 (2)
From my own experience, in 90% of the cases you can't really help. The person you like has to grow tired of this meanie and break all contact with them by themselves. They either grow up and change things as they are, or never learn and repeat this cycle all over again.

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12-02-2015, 05:29 PM (This post was last modified: 12-02-2015, 05:30 PM by mayunaise.)
#30125 (3)
This is serious, try including a bit more grammar into your sentences, please.
As a friend, I suppose you should tell them how you feel about the subject, and hope it helps them break the contact.

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12-02-2015, 05:42 PM
#30126 (4)
I would tell you to bluntly tell the things as they are to the one you like and tell you how you feel about it. Then, let him take care of the rest.

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12-02-2015, 06:13 PM
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(12-02-2015, 05:42 PM)manko Wrote: I would tell you to bluntly tell the things as they are to the one you like and tell you how you feel about it. Then, let him take care of the rest.

I told the person I like everything I feel and am always straight up about it.
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12-02-2015, 06:42 PM
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In the end, I learned not to invest time in people because they seem to leave in the end anyways.
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12-02-2015, 06:48 PM
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(12-02-2015, 06:42 PM)Yamada彡 Wrote: In the end, I learned not to invest time in people because they seem to leave in the end anyways.

That's sad :c
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12-02-2015, 06:48 PM
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>>30134
> In the end, I learned not to invest time in people because they seem to leave in
> the end anyways.

most do but don't have a defeatist attitude about it

the very least is the thought of someone who wont

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12-02-2015, 09:47 PM
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>>30137
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> That's sad :c

It's reality :c

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12-02-2015, 11:15 PM (This post was last modified: 12-02-2015, 11:16 PM by cutie.)
#30169 (10)
(12-02-2015, 05:19 PM)Nanashi Wrote: From my own experience, in 90% of the cases you can't really help. The person you like has to grow tired of this meanie and break all contact with them by themselves. They either grow up and change things as they are, or never learn and repeat this cycle all over again.

Do you think it'd be wrong to catfish this asshole and then the meanie?

(12-02-2015, 09:47 PM)Eros Wrote: >>30137
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>  That's sad :c

It's reality :c

My above question.
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12-03-2015, 12:23 AM (This post was last modified: 12-03-2015, 12:24 AM by Lokorfi.)
#30175 (11)
Don't have anything to say except that if it's their friend ex who you don't know that well, you can't really force them out of it. Just let them come to the decision on their own.

Basically what everyone else has been saying.

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12-10-2015, 01:16 PM
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As much as it sucks, but letting them get hurt to the point where they break it off themselves is the only tried and true way that guarantees that they'll actually help themselves.

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12-12-2015, 12:06 PM
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Well, you either don't do shit and wait till the meanie stops by himself or you can try to talk to him, even though the person that you like says you shouldn't. If he then is even more of a meanie, go ham on him.

Punch him or stuff like that. If you're not up for physical force, use the internet.
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12-13-2015, 12:52 AM
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I barely understood what the hell you just typed.