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04-22-2016, 12:49 AM
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(04-22-2016, 12:25 AM)Senpai Wrote: Continuing to straw man? Cute.
deflection

Quote:That's exactly like the morons that say 4chan is a bad place; they take one aspect of it and villify the rest of the community; which is what you're doing now.
4chan is a horrible place. if you think otherwise, I have to ask you how the 8th grade is going?

Quote:straw man
yea I see those in the pumpkin patch

Quote:If you call someone a murderer and they go to prison for being a murderer; calling them a murderer is not an insult.
"edgy tryhard" has no meaning though, and therefore has no objective criteria for when someone is being an "edgy tryhard." I like how you keep trying to defend this phrase.

Quote:Why wouldn't laws also govern Lewd though? Common sense should tell you that if something's against the law it wouldn't be allowed on Lewd.
I've not done anything illegal though. and that's the point. if there are no rules here, the next highest set of rules take over, and there are no laws on shitposting or whatever afaik

Quote:Becaue nobody ever reads the rules lists on other forums, and the admins end up banning based on common sense.

Some admins are guilty of creating new rules on the spot, which just turns into more drama for the admin; an example is where I was banned on one forum for owning a custom group and running a forum at the same time.
I've never seen anyone get banned on a large forum for something that wasn't listed in the rules.

Quote:The reason is obvious, you were being disrespectful to others
I mention this below.

Quote:You actually could get in contact with me, but for some reason didn't realise that you could message me without adding me as a friend.
since you had banned me from the lewd server (as I asked) I didn't think we had shared a server. I guess we do, but I don't know which one. regardless, you blocked me now, so it doesn't matter.

the point I'm trying to make is that I DIDN'T KNOW IN THE FIRST PLACE WHAT I DID WRONG. I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO CONTACT THE ADMIN TO FIGURE OUT WHAT I DID WRONG. EDGY TRYHARD IS NOT A SPECIFIC BEHAVIOR ONE CAN CORRECT. are you illiterate? that's a real question, because you won't respond to how "edgy tryhard" isn't a meaningful ban reason. you seem to think in your mind that it's some universal thing. do you need a mental examination? it's okay to reach out for help.

Quote:The ban reason covered it pretty nicely, you were being an edgy tryhard and that's why you got banned.
you can keep saying that, but it has no meaning. you haven't told me anything specific that I've done. go ahead, give me a real reason, I'm waiting.

Quote:If I was abusing power, I'm sure that more than just a couple of people would be upset about it.

And think about this, if I actually wanted you gone, why wouldn't I just permenantly ban you? Why would I continue to give you a chance to improve yourself?
because you get a boner every time you get to ban me.

Quote:>if they please
exactly
they don't kick people out of the mall for being "edgy tryhards," or other meaningless "reasons"

Quote:A large amount of the posts you've made on Eternal were made to harass other members. It's awfully ironic that you're here saying I ban you for disagreeing with you while you've been hating on people for saying and doing things you disagree with.
I make sarcastic jokes. I'm sorry that you're unable to understand what sarcasm is, you must lead a horrible life. maybe that's why you take it out on me, because you're jealous of my sense of sarcasm. oh, and my wife.

Quote:You don't, you continue to throw out straw man fallacies made to look like you're actually refuting my argument.
deflection

Quote:Even if that's your legitimate opinion; it's a very stupid accusation to make publicly.

But lemme debunk that for you anyway; why would I make Ayu an admin for that reason after she broke up with me and kicked me to the gutter? She was made an admin simply because she's got talent with design and front-end development and I feel that she'll do just as well with improving Lewd as she has done with helping out on Eternal.
because you think you still have a chance? I don't know your situation, nor do I really want to.

Quote:I've given you warnings on numerous occasions; none of them listened to. Why warn someone when they're just going to continue anyway? Banning you is supposed to make you listen to the warnings, but even then it doesn't seem to work. I'm sorry that I thought you were smart enough to learn from your mistakes.
I'm sorry that you thought I was smart too.

insulting members wow that's a good path. but I suppose you already started when you put "edgy tryhard" as my ban reason.

Quote:It's literally just a word, too funny.
just because you don't get it doesn't mean it's not funny. for example, I hate filthy frank and can't see how anyone could stand to watch that trash, but somehow many people do. I don't get it, but they do.

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04-22-2016, 12:54 AM
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(04-21-2016, 09:10 PM)suicid3Panda Wrote:
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Hey, why don't you come on discord anymore?
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04-22-2016, 12:55 AM
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(04-21-2016, 10:22 PM)Senpai Wrote:
(04-21-2016, 09:55 PM)nerd Wrote:
(04-21-2016, 09:30 PM)Senpai Wrote: If anyone I like is being a cunt to another member of the forum or being an immature child; I'll gladly deal with them the same way I've been dealing with you.
remember Saikou? Saikou is a legitimate racist and even operates a group for legitimate racists. you wouldn't ban Saikou for saying actually racist things, but rather ban me for calling them out. but that's alright, because you got along with Saikou.
I warned Saikou against it and Saikou was smart enough to stop; unlike you.

I'm glad that I'm still famous around here

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04-22-2016, 12:57 AM
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(04-22-2016, 12:55 AM)Saikou Wrote: I'm glad that I'm still famous around here

don't worry, senpai only allows it because you're butt buddies with him.
if I said the shit you have said in the past I'd be gone until the universe dies a heat death

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04-22-2016, 12:58 AM
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(04-22-2016, 12:57 AM)nerd Wrote:
(04-22-2016, 12:55 AM)Saikou Wrote: I'm glad that I'm still famous around here

don't worry, senpai only allows it because you're butt buddies with him.
if I said the shit you have said in the past I'd be gone until the universe dies a heat death

We're not butt buddies

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04-22-2016, 01:02 AM
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(04-22-2016, 12:58 AM)Saikou Wrote: We're not butt buddies

fine, he holds a favorable opinion of you.

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04-22-2016, 01:02 AM
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(04-22-2016, 12:49 AM)nerd Wrote:
(04-22-2016, 12:25 AM)Senpai Wrote: Continuing to straw man? Cute.
deflection
I don't deflect as hard as you do.

Quote:
Quote:That's exactly like the morons that say 4chan is a bad place; they take one aspect of it and villify the rest of the community; which is what you're doing now.
4chan is a horrible place. if you think otherwise, I have to ask you how the 8th grade is going?
There's only one board on 4chan that could be considered bad; and everyone that comes to the conclusion that 4chan is a bad place does so by basing their entire opinion on that one board.

Quote:
Quote:straw man
yea I see those in the pumpkin patch
cute

Quote:
Quote:If you call someone a murderer and they go to prison for being a murderer; calling them a murderer is not an insult.
"edgy tryhard" has no meaning though, and therefore has no objective criteria for when someone is being an "edgy tryhard." I like how you keep trying to defend this phrase.
It does have a meaning, obviously it's far too complex for you to understand.

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Quote:Why wouldn't laws also govern Lewd though? Common sense should tell you that if something's against the law it wouldn't be allowed on Lewd.
I've not done anything illegal though. and that's the point. if there are no rules here, the next highest set of rules take over, and there are no laws on shitposting or whatever afaik
Like I've said multiple times; it's all common sense.

If you walked into a place without a list of rules and started saying rude baseless things to someone in there, what would happen? They'd presumably get angry at you.

Quote:
Quote:Becaue nobody ever reads the rules lists on other forums, and the admins end up banning based on common sense.

Some admins are guilty of creating new rules on the spot, which just turns into more drama for the admin; an example is where I was banned on one forum for owning a custom group and running a forum at the same time.
I've never seen anyone get banned on a large forum for something that wasn't listed in the rules.
You don't get around much then.

Quote:
Quote:You actually could get in contact with me, but for some reason didn't realise that you could message me without adding me as a friend.
since you had banned me from the lewd server (as I asked) I didn't think we had shared a server. I guess we do, but I don't know which one. regardless, you blocked me now, so it doesn't matter.
Yes, I blocked you when I gave you the chance to have a mature discussion about the ban, but you chose to waste my time.

Quote:the point I'm trying to make is that I DIDN'T KNOW IN THE FIRST PLACE WHAT I DID WRONG. I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO CONTACT THE ADMIN TO FIGURE OUT WHAT I DID WRONG. EDGY TRYHARD IS NOT A SPECIFIC BEHAVIOR ONE CAN CORRECT. are you illiterate? that's a real question, because you won't respond to how "edgy tryhard" isn't a meaningful ban reason. you seem to think in your mind that it's some universal thing. do you need a mental examination? it's okay to reach out for help.
edgy tryhard isn't a reason, it's a description of how you were behaving.

Quote:
Quote:The ban reason covered it pretty nicely, you were being an edgy tryhard and that's why you got banned.
you can keep saying that, but it has no meaning. you haven't told me anything specific that I've done. go ahead, give me a real reason, I'm waiting.
How about harassing Beard over on Eternal? How about harassing Orange when your ban ended on Eternal? How about all the people you've harassed on Eternal? How about trying to provoke people on Lewd?

Quote:
Quote:If I was abusing power, I'm sure that more than just a couple of people would be upset about it.

And think about this, if I actually wanted you gone, why wouldn't I just permenantly ban you? Why would I continue to give you a chance to improve yourself?
because you get a boner every time you get to ban me.
ofc, I'm touching myself right now just thinking about it.

Quote:
Quote:>if they please
exactly
they don't kick people out of the mall for being "edgy tryhards," or other meaningless "reasons"
They kick people out of the mall for harassing people, yes?

Quote:
Quote:A large amount of the posts you've made on Eternal were made to harass other members. It's awfully ironic that you're here saying I ban you for disagreeing with you while you've been hating on people for saying and doing things you disagree with.
I make sarcastic jokes. I'm sorry that you're unable to understand what sarcasm is, you must lead a horrible life. maybe that's why you take it out on me, because you're jealous of my sense of sarcasm. oh, and my wife.
sarcastic jokes != harassing

Quote:
Quote:You don't, you continue to throw out straw man fallacies made to look like you're actually refuting my argument.
deflection
no u

Quote:
Quote:Even if that's your legitimate opinion; it's a very stupid accusation to make publicly.

But lemme debunk that for you anyway; why would I make Ayu an admin for that reason after she broke up with me and kicked me to the gutter? She was made an admin simply because she's got talent with design and front-end development and I feel that she'll do just as well with improving Lewd as she has done with helping out on Eternal.
because you think you still have a chance? I don't know your situation, nor do I really want to.
Not at all; why would I think I have a chance with someone that doesn't even talk to me anymore?

Quote:
Quote:I've given you warnings on numerous occasions; none of them listened to. Why warn someone when they're just going to continue anyway? Banning you is supposed to make you listen to the warnings, but even then it doesn't seem to work. I'm sorry that I thought you were smart enough to learn from your mistakes.
I'm sorry that you thought I was smart too.

insulting members wow that's a good path. but I suppose you already started when you put "edgy tryhard" as my ban reason.
I thought that was a compliment more than in insult.

Quote:
Quote:It's literally just a word, too funny.
just because you don't get it doesn't mean it's not funny. for example, I hate filthy frank and can't see how anyone could stand to watch that trash, but somehow many people do. I don't get it, but they do.

I didn't see anyone falling out of their chairs with laughter; the post was literally ignored, and it's besides the point; a one word "joke" is ridiculous and you'd be warned for making it on most forums.

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04-22-2016, 01:04 AM
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And I don't understand why you keep bringing up Saikou like she's relevant to your bans; I've already explained that she wasn't banned because she listened to her warnings.

And tbh the accusation that I favour her more than you is baseless and ridiculous.

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Congrats on admin.
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04-22-2016, 01:56 AM (This post was last modified: 04-22-2016, 01:57 AM by nerd.)
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(04-22-2016, 01:02 AM)Senpai Wrote: snip because this is all irrelevant and I'm steering this conversation back to where it needs to be.
at this point it's mindless bickering.
if you want to bring any of this shit up again, go ahead, but I want you to reply to every single thing I say below.

We need rules for these basic reasons:
  • It creates structure.
  • Rules provide a guideline for users so they know exactly how to act.
  • Rules provide a guideline for admins so they know when to ban. This is also helpful for bringing new staff on board, and even preventing dispute within staff on punishments.
  • It prevents users from feeling as though they are wrongly banned, or being surprised when they are banned, because there is a document that you can point to and show them exactly why they are in the wrong.
  • Rules keep the admins in check so they aren't banning people wrongly. Checks and balances.
  • Helps admins write ban messages (copy & paste the rule into ban reason field)
  • Helps users report rule-breaking posts to admins
Why you say we should not have rules (and what I say about them):
  • Friction between admins and users: not true. do you understand that this friction is happening because there are no rules. If there were rules, and I broke one, we wouldn't be having this argument. It actually makes it more difficult for someone to dispute the ban, because the rule has been there the whole time.
  • The rule is "use common sense:" that's not a reliable rule. what you think is wrong and what I think is wrong can vary, and cause users to feel wrongfully banned.
  • We're too small of a community to need rules: there is no community too small to have rules. I have rules for myself and I'm only one person.
Look at that, you got me to write a legitimate post. Congratulations.
The bottom line is that it makes everyone's life easier.

edit: looks like you forgot to style lists. perfect.

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04-22-2016, 02:09 AM
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I'm currently out, will respond when I get home.

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04-22-2016, 02:11 AM
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This thread has become phenomenally droll.

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Please continue. Or don't, whatever. For the record, I'm in favor of the "anarchy, not chaos" approach to things. Even if we wrote explicit rules, I doubt anything would change around here, but I'd prefer to operate without them for as long as possible.

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04-22-2016, 02:20 AM
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(04-22-2016, 02:11 AM)RevonZZ Wrote: This thread has become phenomenally droll.

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Please continue. Or don't, whatever. For the record, I'm in favor of the "anarchy, not chaos" approach to things. Even if we wrote explicit rules, I doubt anything would change around here, but I'd prefer to operate without them for as long as possible.

I'd prefer that too, honestly. it's just that after I've been banned twice with vague messages, I'd like something to be done, and I think this would help everyone. also your inbox is full

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(04-22-2016, 02:11 AM)RevonZZ Wrote: Please continue. Or don't, whatever. For the record, I'm in favor of the "anarchy, not chaos" approach to things. Even if we wrote explicit rules, I doubt anything would change around here, but I'd prefer to operate without them for as long as possible.

I was an admin on a forum (not saying which because I am sure I will be eBullied for saying it), and from my experience, anarchy is the best way to go. People will always break rules anyways, and others will find ways to bypass them.
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04-22-2016, 03:59 AM (This post was last modified: 04-22-2016, 04:07 AM by tn5421.)
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I'm amused that @Senpai assumes that everyone here is healthy, mentally speaking, when statistically speaking people with certain mental illnesses are drawn to anime and related things.

http://www.shrinktank.com/why-troubled-y...-part-two/

Oh, and since you decided to cite me as someone that's still around, you should note that my activity levels have dropped considerably.  Not mentioning that part is deceptive at best.

EDIT: on second thought you should probably just lock this thread lol

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(04-22-2016, 01:56 AM)nerd Wrote:
(04-22-2016, 01:02 AM)Senpai Wrote: snip because this is all irrelevant and I'm steering this conversation back to where it needs to be.
at this point it's mindless bickering.
if you want to bring any of this shit up again, go ahead, but I want you to reply to every single thing I say below.
deflection

Quote:We need rules for these basic reasons:
  • It creates structure.
No, it creates chaos; you forget that we had rules for a while.
https://lewd.sx/t/changes-to-staff-and-rules

Quote:
  • Rules provide a guideline for users so they know exactly how to act.
The answer I gave for the above bullet point covers this.

Quote:
  • Rules provide a guideline for admins so they know when to ban. This is also helpful for bringing new staff on board, and even preventing dispute within staff on punishments.
The answer I gave for the above bullet point covers this; they did nothing but cause confusion between staff and users as it wasn't clear where the line between breaking the rules and when it wasn't something that should be enforced. Not due to the rules, which were well thought out and planned, but because rules are never clear enough to judge when a user takes something too far.

Which is why I now rely on common sense; where I don't have to punish people for little things and we can all be happy until someone pushes their luck, gets banned temporarily (after a warning), and returns angry af and posts nonsense in public trying to start drama.

Quote:
  • It prevents users from feeling as though they are wrongly banned, or being surprised when they are banned, because there is a document that you can point to and show them exactly why they are in the wrong.
Even when rules are in place people come up with "reasons" as to why they were wrongly banned; like when we had the rules in place we had bullshit like "x user did it too, why are you unfairly banning me" or "i didn't even get a verbal warning for it" when they receive a warning via the warnings system.

Quote:
  • Rules keep the admins in check so they aren't banning people wrongly. Checks and balances.
Same as above.

Quote:
  • Helps admins write ban messages (copy & paste the rule into ban reason field)
I guess this point is right, although meaningless.

Quote:
  • Helps users report rule-breaking posts to admins
This point I agree with; too often do people post things in threads about people doing things that would require warning instead of reporting them.

Quote:Why you say we should not have rules (and what I say about them):
  • Friction between admins and users: not true. do you understand that this friction is happening because there are no rules. If there were rules, and I broke one, we wouldn't be having this argument. It actually makes it more difficult for someone to dispute the ban, because the rule has been there the whole time.
Like I said above, we had rules for a while and my points against rules all come from that time.

Quote:
  • The rule is "use common sense:" that's not a reliable rule. what you think is wrong and what I think is wrong can vary, and cause users to feel wrongfully banned.
Everyone should know the difference between right and wrong. Doctors say the age of reason is eight years old, so unless anyone's under eight, everyone here should know what's reasonable.

Quote:
  • We're too small of a community to need rules: there is no community too small to have rules. I have rules for myself and I'm only one person.
Rules for yourself just sounds like a funny way of saying common sense.

Quote:Look at that, you got me to write a legitimate post. Congratulations.
I didn't know you had it in you.

Quote:The bottom line is that it makes everyone's life easier.
No, it really doesn't.

Quote:edit: looks like you forgot to style lists. perfect.
fixed

(04-22-2016, 02:25 AM)Vlad Wrote:
(04-22-2016, 02:11 AM)RevonZZ Wrote: Please continue. Or don't, whatever. For the record, I'm in favor of the "anarchy, not chaos" approach to things. Even if we wrote explicit rules, I doubt anything would change around here, but I'd prefer to operate without them for as long as possible.

not saying which because I am sure I will be eBullied for saying it
now I'm curious.

(04-22-2016, 02:20 AM)nerd Wrote: also your inbox is full

shouldn't be full anymore
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04-22-2016, 04:15 AM
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(04-22-2016, 03:59 AM)tn5421 Wrote: I'm amused that @Senpai assumes that everyone here is healthy, mentally speaking, when statistically speaking people with certain mental illnesses are drawn to anime and related things.
I assumed that everyone here has a basic understanding of common sense; sorry I forgot about you.

Quote:Oh, and since you decided to cite me as someone that's still around, you should note that my activity levels have dropped considerably.  Not mentioning that part is deceptive at best.
I never mentioned you once.

Quote:EDIT: on second thought you should probably just lock this thread lol
Why? So nerd can claim that I'm an SJW shutting off his opinions because I can't handle them?

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(04-22-2016, 04:15 AM)Senpai Wrote:
(04-22-2016, 03:59 AM)tn5421 Wrote: I'm amused that @Senpai assumes that everyone here is healthy, mentally speaking, when statistically speaking people with certain mental illnesses are drawn to anime and related things.
I assumed that everyone here has a basic understanding of common sense; sorry I forgot about you.[1]

Quote:Oh, and since you decided to cite me as someone that's still around, you should note that my activity levels have dropped considerably.  Not mentioning that part is deceptive at best.
I never mentioned you once.[2]

Quote:EDIT: on second thought you should probably just lock this thread lol
Why? So nerd can claim that I'm an SJW shutting off his opinions because I can't handle them?[3]

1: Wow, leading off with the personal insults already.

2: The reference is obvious to anyone that was here 6 months ago. I'm simply putting it in writing.

3: You've set a precedent for closing threads that have derailed from their original purpose. This thread has derailed from it's original purpose. Therefore, you should close the thread.

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04-22-2016, 04:30 AM
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@Senpai my phone is being an asshole and not letting me select text sooo this may not be in order

re: deflection
I said you can bring up any of the previous points if you want to, but you didn't, so that point is moot.


it was my understanding that the rules weren't written very well. I honestly don't remember what you had up and I'm not sure if there are any copies anywhere.

I'm reading the thread from when you got rid of the rules and people didn't think that was a good idea.

you have an excuse to not put up with people claiming "wrongful ban" even there are clearly defined rules.

"reasonable" is still subjective.

"rules for myself" would extend beyond common sense. I'm taking about stuff like "I'm going to read for half an hour each day."

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(04-22-2016, 04:27 AM)tn5421 Wrote:
(04-22-2016, 04:15 AM)Senpai Wrote:
(04-22-2016, 03:59 AM)tn5421 Wrote: I'm amused that @Senpai assumes that everyone here is healthy, mentally speaking, when statistically speaking people with certain mental illnesses are drawn to anime and related things.
I assumed that everyone here has a basic understanding of common sense; sorry I forgot about you.[1]

Quote:Oh, and since you decided to cite me as someone that's still around, you should note that my activity levels have dropped considerably.  Not mentioning that part is deceptive at best.
I never mentioned you once.[2]

Quote:EDIT: on second thought you should probably just lock this thread lol
Why? So nerd can claim that I'm an SJW shutting off his opinions because I can't handle them?[3]

1: Wow, leading off with the personal insults already.

2: The reference is obvious to anyone that was here 6 months ago. I'm simply putting it in writing.

3: You've set a precedent for closing threads that have derailed from their original purpose. This thread has derailed from it's original purpose. Therefore, you should close the thread.

1. A small joke, I'm sorry; I don't understand why people hate on me for not getting a joke and then hate me when I make a joke.

2. I was actually thinking about mumu, mayu, equinox, saikou, losi, mis (although mis is pretty quiet now), senka (who doesn't post much but logs in regularly), hatsune miku and a bunch of other great people that stick around when I wrote it. At least, I'm assuming you're talking about me saying that people that joined in 2014 are still around, but that wouldn't make much sense considering you joined in 2015. tbh idk what the heck you're talking about, so some clarification would be great.

3. I'll close this thread when I feel like it.

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04-22-2016, 04:40 AM
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@Senpai I think that, given the context of the thread, this isn't the time for jokes like that one.

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04-22-2016, 04:44 AM (This post was last modified: 04-22-2016, 04:45 AM by tn5421.)
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(04-22-2016, 04:35 AM)Senpai Wrote:
(04-22-2016, 04:27 AM)tn5421 Wrote:
(04-22-2016, 04:15 AM)Senpai Wrote:
(04-22-2016, 03:59 AM)tn5421 Wrote: I'm amused that @Senpai assumes that everyone here is healthy, mentally speaking, when statistically speaking people with certain mental illnesses are drawn to anime and related things.
I assumed that everyone here has a basic understanding of common sense; sorry I forgot about you.[1]

Quote:Oh, and since you decided to cite me as someone that's still around, you should note that my activity levels have dropped considerably.  Not mentioning that part is deceptive at best.
I never mentioned you once.[2]

Quote:EDIT: on second thought you should probably just lock this thread lol
Why? So nerd can claim that I'm an SJW shutting off his opinions because I can't handle them?[3]

1: Wow, leading off with the personal insults already.

2: The reference is obvious to anyone that was here 6 months ago.  I'm simply putting it in writing.

3: You've set a precedent for closing threads that have derailed from their original purpose.  This thread has derailed from it's original purpose.  Therefore, you should close the thread.

1. A small joke, I'm sorry; I don't understand why people hate on me for not getting a joke and then hate me when I make a joke.

2. I was actually thinking about mumu, mayu, equinox, saikou, losi, mis (although mis is pretty quiet now), senka (who doesn't post much but logs in regularly), hatsune miku and a bunch of other great people that stick around when I wrote it. At least, I'm assuming you're talking about me saying that people that joined in 2014 are still around, but that wouldn't make much sense considering you joined in 2015. tbh idk what the heck you're talking about, so some clarification would be great.

3. I'll close this thread when I feel like it.

This reply:

(04-21-2016, 08:55 PM)Senpai Wrote:
(04-21-2016, 08:30 PM)nerd Wrote:
(04-21-2016, 08:25 PM)Senpai Wrote:
(04-21-2016, 08:16 PM)nerd Wrote: yeah yeah, you ban me every time I say something you don't like.
that's why you never set up rules, because you can invent a rule for me to break every day.

you aren't equipped to be an admin if you ban people just because you don't like them.
grow the fuck up. you won't like everyone in the world. if you're setting up a forum as a way to communicate with only people that you like, you've set up a forum for the wrong reason, and I suggest you try out tumblr instead.
No, I ban you for being immature af and carrying on like an child; you keep getting banned because you continue to be immature.

subjective. there's no objective guideline as to what is "immature." this is what I'm saying; you have no objective rules as to why one should be banned, and you like it that way.
Pretty sure you know that when you're harassing someone or being a dick in general; you're being immature.

And I do like relying on common sense, apart from one bad apple, the community's become a far nicer place for everyone since the rules were removed.

Quote:
Quote:
Quote:by the way, if you ban me for this post, it only makes what I say look correct :)
by the way, i couldn't care less.
you will when people start realizing that you're an asshole and an incapable forum owner and leave.
I had this same conversation with someone six months ago and yet here we are six months later and with people that signed up in 2014 still returning.

Quote:
Quote:i won't be banning you for this post, but i will be banning you for the next post you make that can be read as you being an immature child.

again, subjective. you don't want objective rules so you can continue banning me because you don't like me.
and by the way, when you include "edgy tryhard" as the ban message, it really makes it look like you're banning me for no reason.
No, it looks like I'm banning you for being an edgy tryhard.

Quote:also because there are no rules.
There is a rule; use common sense. Even the dumbest of people know the difference between right and wrong; what makes you different?

Quote:also I like how you didn't respond to a single point I made in my post.
Your points are irrelevant and I won't dignify them with a response.

See: bolded italic text.

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04-22-2016, 04:45 AM
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(04-22-2016, 04:30 AM)nerd Wrote: re: deflection
I said you can bring up any of the previous points if you want to, but you didn't, so that point is moot.
I don't see why I need to bring up any of my previous points; isn't that what you should be doing if you disagree with them?

Quote:it was my understanding that the rules weren't written very well. I honestly don't remember what you had up and I'm not sure if there are any copies anywhere.
No, they were written pretty well; I've restored the thread here; I've restored the thread and you can read them here; https://lewd.sx/t/our-rules

Quote:I'm reading the thread from when you got rid of the rules and people didn't think that was a good idea.
I've had more people thank more for removing rules (either via PMs or via the discord server) than there were people that said they think it's a bad idea. The weeks trial period was a great success, which is why I haven't added them back.

Quote:you have an excuse to not put up with people claiming "wrongful ban" even there are clearly defined rules.
I'm not quite sure I understand this sentence.

Quote:"reasonable" is still subjective.
People know what the difference between what's reasonable and what isn't reasonable is; I've never been given a list of rules to follow at any job because the employers expect you to use common sense.

Quote:"rules for myself" would extend beyond common sense. I'm taking about stuff like "I'm going to read for half an hour each day."
Sounds more like goals than rules.

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04-22-2016, 04:47 AM
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(04-22-2016, 04:44 AM)tn5421 Wrote:
(04-22-2016, 04:35 AM)Senpai Wrote:
(04-22-2016, 04:27 AM)tn5421 Wrote:
(04-22-2016, 04:15 AM)Senpai Wrote: I assumed that everyone here has a basic understanding of common sense; sorry I forgot about you.[1]

I never mentioned you once.[2]

Why? So nerd can claim that I'm an SJW shutting off his opinions because I can't handle them?[3]

1: Wow, leading off with the personal insults already.

2: The reference is obvious to anyone that was here 6 months ago.  I'm simply putting it in writing.

3: You've set a precedent for closing threads that have derailed from their original purpose.  This thread has derailed from it's original purpose.  Therefore, you should close the thread.

1. A small joke, I'm sorry; I don't understand why people hate on me for not getting a joke and then hate me when I make a joke.

2. I was actually thinking about mumu, mayu, equinox, saikou, losi, mis (although mis is pretty quiet now), senka (who doesn't post much but logs in regularly), hatsune miku and a bunch of other great people that stick around when I wrote it. At least, I'm assuming you're talking about me saying that people that joined in 2014 are still around, but that wouldn't make much sense considering you joined in 2015. tbh idk what the heck you're talking about, so some clarification would be great.

3. I'll close this thread when I feel like it.

This reply:

(04-21-2016, 08:55 PM)Senpai Wrote:
(04-21-2016, 08:30 PM)nerd Wrote:
(04-21-2016, 08:25 PM)Senpai Wrote: No, I ban you for being immature af and carrying on like an child; you keep getting banned because you continue to be immature.

subjective. there's no objective guideline as to what is "immature." this is what I'm saying; you have no objective rules as to why one should be banned, and you like it that way.
Pretty sure you know that when you're harassing someone or being a dick in general; you're being immature.

And I do like relying on common sense, apart from one bad apple, the community's become a far nicer place for everyone since the rules were removed.

Quote:
Quote:by the way, i couldn't care less.
you will when people start realizing that you're an asshole and an incapable forum owner and leave.
I had this same conversation with someone six months ago and yet here we are six months later and with people that signed up in 2014 still returning.

Quote:
Quote:i won't be banning you for this post, but i will be banning you for the next post you make that can be read as you being an immature child.

again, subjective. you don't want objective rules so you can continue banning me because you don't like me.
and by the way, when you include "edgy tryhard" as the ban message, it really makes it look like you're banning me for no reason.
No, it looks like I'm banning you for being an edgy tryhard.

Quote:also because there are no rules.
There is a rule; use common sense. Even the dumbest of people know the difference between right and wrong; what makes you different?

Quote:also I like how you didn't respond to a single point I made in my post.
Your points are irrelevant and I won't dignify them with a response.

See: bolded italic text.

I don't see how my conversation with you six months ago is relevant at all to you being active; or how your activity has anything to do with my post.

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04-22-2016, 05:04 AM (This post was last modified: 04-22-2016, 05:04 AM by nerd.)
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